As a post op transgender woman myself and someone who is mostly passable, I crave the attention of men. I am always so flattered when they compliment or hit on me. I would have no problem offering up my body up to someone who treated me with kindness. I would hope that the encounter would be mutual. I would want it to be a way for the two of us to become closer and not just an act of physical release. I have had my share of casual encounters. I never found them particularly satisfying. To me good sex is about two minds and hearts connecting. There is a spiritual component which blends with the physical encounter.