As to young people accusing their parents of abuse, or not accepting automatically that they are trans, this is what children do. Children often complain about parental decisions because they are not mature enough to understand what is really going on. I could say this about the desire for a car, or to spend the night at a friend’s. The fact that you see complaints from young people with regard to accepting their identity is not indicative of a problem related to trans people. It is a problem related to youth and just part of the maturation process. .