I normally can respond in a reasoned even handed manner to most stories of trans phobic bigotry. This one got my blood boiling. The incident was bad enough, the actions of the adults totally inexcusable. It makes me want to buy a gun and walk around the school with Tobi as his personal protector. Fight fire with fire as it were. I realize that this is emotions talking, and it is something I would never do, but I cannot remember being so incensed by an incident like this. To Tobi and his mother, I would say, you did nothing wrong. I and millions more are behind you.