This is something I tell guys on dating sites. I am always amazed that they want to show off their prized possession and then use it on me in any way that they find exciting. Two often they do not ask for consent or what my thoughts are about the matter. They just want to penetrate a hole and they’re not particularly picky. Where is the excitement and enjoyment in that? I want to give myself to a guy who I like and who is kind and gentle and sweet. Not one who thinks he’s entitled to my body.