Transitioning at a Mature Age — Musings On The Beginning Of My Story

locke besse
8 min readApr 10, 2021

I was born in the 69th year of my life and began puberty in my 70th. Transitioning is hard. Transitioning during a pandemic is harder. Transitioning at a mature age is harder still… But continuing to live as a fraud is the hardest of all. There is an old Chinese curse: “May you lead an interesting life.” Mine has been exceptionally interesting — full of heartache, dashed dreams and betrayals by those closest to me. But the silver lining is that interesting also means out of the ordinary — and mine has been anything but ordinary…

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locke besse

Eclectic trans woman, terminally curious. Too many degrees. Trying to figure out what I want to be when I grow up. Attract stray puppies and social outcasts