You have identified the real problem. Most of the country is enlightened and more accepting of differences than the vocal minority who are not, and they’re trying to hold on to their distorted view that we are a white cis patriarchy and a fundamentalist Christian nation. The reason we see so much division is the fact that too few of the thinking people in the country take the time to vote. On the other hand the vocal minority is well organized and is creating all kinds of problems that have almost made certain parts of the country into fascist states. Voting is the solution. The MAGATs may be vocal and winning at the state level, but it is a trend that is ultimately destined to failure. We could end it now if people would just be motivated enough to vote. You are absolutely right.